(I mean, other than figuring out how to take care of a two-week-old infant...)

But if we were...

oh, if we were.

My comments got all sorts of messed up yesterday, thanks to a switch-up in the commenting program I use and some resulting total confusion on my part.

And of course said messed-upedness coincided with a fabulous $100 TJ Maxx giftcard giveaway that I really want all of you to have the opportunity to win, because it's fall, and fall fashion is the best, and I want you to have the chance to get all dressed up in fabulous hats and scarves and beautiful things for free.

So if you wanted to (or tried to) enter but your comment didn't show up, please accept my sincerest apologies - go ahead and comment again under the Like A Rolling Stone post (you can also enter by voting for your favorite blogger's look here), and you'll be good to go. And FYI, you can comment once a day every day between now and October 12 for extra chances to win.

Again: so so sorry!

A great bridesmaids' gift for those of you having weddings during months when the weather can jump from 75 to 45 overnight (and your girlfriends may not have planned to bring along something to protect them against the chill): Yoox 100% cashmere wraps ($135; available in a wide variety of colors).