Lifestyle

Lifestyle

Back To The Trees

When I was fifteen years old, my four best friends and I spent a week at my friend's parents' place in Vermont. They had a porch enclosed with screens, and on it was a hanging bed - really just a piece of wood suspended from the ceiling by four chains and piled up with sleeping bags and comforters. We took turns sleeping on that bed, and on the night that it was my turn, I asked my friend what was so special about it, why everyone fought over who got to stay there. "You'll see," she said.

And in the very early morning, while everyone else was still asleep, I woke to pale sunlight streaming across the lake through a thick cloud of mist. I burrowed down into the blankets, and watched as the lake grew brighter and the birds began to stir. It was one of the most peaceful moments of my life.

The place we’re looking at has no lake, but it does have an enclosed porch, and a distant view of the Hudson River. I'm not counting any chickens, but I'm just saying...

it'd be nice to get back there.

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More Simple Financial Tips For Women

Yeah, yeah...more about money. What can I say: it's on my mind lately. And there's nothing like starting a family to make you start thinking very seriously about the future.

Some more tips that I picked up at the Go Girl Finance event Monday night and wanted to share:

Love & Money

- The number one predictor of divorce is fighting about money. That I knew already, but Personal Finance Expert Manisha Thakor has a simple test to determine whether a couple is starting from the same basic headspace. When you look at a menu, which side do you order from first: the left side, or the right side? And which side does your partner order from first? (This test doesn't exactly work for me, since I like to order two appetizers rather than an entree because I usually think appetizers are more interesting...but I get where she's going: do you approach eating out as an opportunity for indulgence, or are you frugal even when enjoying yourself?)

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Easy Money-Saving Tip

Take your annual income, and divide it by 2000 (the number of hours per year the average American woman works) to learn how much you make per hour....and then before you buy something, do a quick calculation to determine whether the item is worth that many hours of work to you. It may be tempting to pick up a $300 pair of boots...but once you realize that you'll have to work 15 hours to pay for them, resistance may come a little easier.

Click here for my another of my favorite (easy!) ways to up your savings.

Click here to learn how to handle tricky financial situations involving friends (hint: no yelling!).


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