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What To Do When You’re Stuck In The Airport With Kids

Guess what I got really, really good at last week?

Existing in an airport with a three-year-old.

When we came to terms with the fact that yup, our flight was leaving without us and settled in at 8AM with a good twelve-plus hours before we could even begin thinking about boarding on the horizon, I was not a happy camper. I mean, airports are fun for about twenty minutes when you're buying fashion magazines and eating Mounds bars, and then they become a whole lot less fun and a whole lot more Groundhog Day-ish (with a dash of The Shining thrown in), and you would just like to get on the plane now, please. I can't even entertain myself in an airport for that long; the idea of keeping my son non-miserable was intimidating, to say the least.

But?

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How To Win A Bidding War (And Whether You Should Write A Letter To The Sellers)

OK, so I think we can all agree: bidding wars ARE THE WORST. You get all crazy emotional, and start laying awake at night picturing your new life between your new walls, and come up with your highest and best offer, and then someone swoops in all WHEE I HAVE SO MUCH MONEYYYY and you can't even compete but you try to, and start offering more and more and more, and then don't get it anyway, and:

-> tears.

Anyway, I've been through a few bidding wars over the course of my life as a homeowner (six, to be precise, with another one on the horizon this week). I have also been on the other side, as a seller. And what I have learned is that there is nothing you can do to control the outcome (short of having unlimited reserves of cash, in which case that's wonderful and also you are probably reading the wrong website), but there is a whole lot you can do to tip the scales in your favor.

Are any of these things going to for-sure win you the house? No. But they will make it more likely, and "more likely" is better than "less likely," am I right?

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Let’s Talk House-Buying Logistics

Don't you love it when the word "logistics" is in a post title?

Doesn't that make you DESPERATE to read it??

But seriously: Enough people said that they want to know about how we're handling things like the great Rent vs. Buy debate, school choice, and home selection that I'm convinced that at least some of you will be able to keep your eyes from glazing over. (I mean, I certainly don't find this stuff boring - I think real estate is totally Grand Drama, and kind of the most fascinating topic ever, but I also get that I definitely didn't want to talk about, like, taxes and variances and school districts in my former life as a non-parent-y rental apartment-dweller.)

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The Summer Of Us

family travel journal

Remember when I wrote about how I kept a kind of free-form travel diary when I lived in London during college? And how my #AlamoDriveHappy resolution was to start a travel diary for each of my kids, so that they could learn how to travel consciously, and have their own reminders of where in the world they’ve been?

I improved on it a little.

Before we left for California I bought a journal to start for my son, but then when we sat down together to paste in things we’d gathered over the first couple of days, I realized that this moment in our lives isn’t exactly about “what I’m experiencing” or “what Indy is experiencing.” It’s about what we’re experiencing all together, as a family, and that’s what I want to use this journal to commemorate: our spring and summer of us, when we leave the life we had for a whole new one, and everything that happens in between.